Girls: how important are muscles?
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Jayson (18 - 24 yrs) - January 22, 2010
I know girls don't like spagetti arms or big guts but how much does it matter to have big muscles and be totally ripped? Do most girls want that or are they ok with guys who are normal and "in-shape"?
Answers
ShellyBelly (18 - 24 yrs) - January 22, 2010
They're nice but not as important as boys think. I like guys who are nice and fun more than buff boys.
Samantha (18 - 24 yrs) - January 22, 2010
I don't date guys who have alot of muscles because they usually care more about them selfs then their partner. It also seems that they are always trying to prove themselfs, when they don't need to.
Steff said:
lol it think we cant safely say more then 80% of the population of the earth cares more about themselves then other ppl
lol it think we cant safely say more then 80% of the population of the earth cares more about themselves then other ppl
Taylor said:
Totally agree I would rather have w geek they will give you all of your sexual needs!!!!
Totally agree I would rather have w geek they will give you all of your sexual needs!!!!
dae (25 - 29 yrs) - January 23, 2010
out of everything girls dig the most, is confidence. If your asking questions like this it seems like your a bit insecure in one way or another about your physique. Relax and loosen up a bit.
Instead of worrying about all the things that'd impress a girl, make something of yourself, impress yourself first, and girls will follow.
If you don't have that girls also love passion in a hobby or lifestyle. It can be anything, even sports. They love to see something that your really into, the last thing they want to see is a guy that lays around the house not doing much. That's why girls often love guys who workout, cause it shows that they actually gets off their asses and does something, and doesn't stay at home playing xbox for 16 hours a day.
Shana (18 - 24 yrs) - January 23, 2010
work on ur personality more then ur body and u'll do good with girls.
Brent (25 - 29 yrs) - January 23, 2010
They like guys to work out and be in shape but most don't go for the huge guys. No matter what they say, hit the gym once in a while and stay active.
megan (18 - 24 yrs) - January 24, 2010
i like muscles but not too much...thats gross
Blondie19 (18 - 24 yrs) - January 24, 2010
I really don't think that Muscles has anything to do with it. As a girl you are trying to find the one person that you love, and who loves you back. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years and I love him for being himself. But what I love most is how I could just have been in a rain storm and look awful but he still tells me that I’m beautiful. I think that what really matters is how much you show your girl that you love her for who she is. Once that happens it does not matter what you look like.
Jayson said:
Guys are so busy focusing on it all the time it might seem more important to us than it is. Nice to know you're interested in more.
Guys are so busy focusing on it all the time it might seem more important to us than it is. Nice to know you're interested in more.
Blondie19 (18 - 24 yrs) - January 26, 2010
I agree with you Jason. When guys only focus on their muscules that only means one thing, they are not focusing on me. I would rather have a skinny guy who loves me than a buff guy who loves himself. But there still has to be some level of attraction for me to want to continue dating a guy. But that attraction does not mean big muscles.
Heather (18 - 24 yrs) - February 8, 2010
I wouldn't want a guy that was really *out* of shape, because it generally means he doesn't care or puts a lot of effort into doing nothing.
But having obvious muscles is not big on my radar. I just hate when they're obviouslly very unfit.
Jayson said:
Seems like most girls are happy with a guy who gets exercise a few days a week but spends most of his time doing fun things and being good to her. I'd rather do that than live at the gym!
Seems like most girls are happy with a guy who gets exercise a few days a week but spends most of his time doing fun things and being good to her. I'd rather do that than live at the gym!
Melinda (18 - 24 yrs) - February 24, 2010
Personally huge biceps are a turn off for me, as long as the guy is somewhat fit and healthy then I am happy.
jayson said:
I like to hear all these comments from real girls, makes me less intimidated by the huge guys in the gym.
I like to hear all these comments from real girls, makes me less intimidated by the huge guys in the gym.
Kevin (18 - 24 yrs) - April 15, 2010
Every girl is different man, some are more shallow and are into looks 100% or some girls really don't care about looks but intelligence personality and charm. In my experience the shallow ones are exactly that, like a shallow pool of water. You want someone deep, someone you can connect with and someone who legitimately makes you happy.
Devin (under 18 yrs) - April 20, 2010
Guys who are ripped have one thing on their mind "Can i make my muscles bigger" or " are my muscles big enough" and pay no attention to anything else but themselves.From past expierience girls care more about personaility and if the guy can make them laugh. But a friend of mine said girls always dig guys with six packs. Can i get your opinion.
Andressa (18 - 24 yrs) - April 28, 2010
Honestly, buddy, it all depends on each different girls prefrence! Many different girls like different things! As long as YOU are happy with the way you look I'm sure some one else will be too! Personality is number one! Unless they are shallow and do you really want that??
