Hurts to have sex
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CC (under 18 yrs) - January 27, 2010
ok so when my boyfriend and I have sex it hurts when he goes all the way in...like its pushing against something sensitive. Does this happen to other girls?...he's my first boyfriend so no experience with this and don't really wanna talk to my doctor lol.
Answers
Dave (30 - 34 yrs) - January 27, 2010
It sounds like he's hitting your cervix, which I hear is pretty painful for girls. If you make a noise or jump a little when it happens he might misunderstand and think you like it. Tell him to be careful because it hurts and to not push in all the way. You may also want to try different positions.
Lil V (25 - 29 yrs) - January 27, 2010
go to a women's health center or family planning clinic if you're not comfortable with your regular doctor.
shell-e (18 - 24 yrs) - January 29, 2010
this happened to me, try doggy it will give you more control and he won't be able to go as deep. plus he'll love it! :)
Andyk said:
Do not try doggy style! That gives you absolutely no control of how deep or hard he goes! Plus it is easy for him to penetrate deeply from this position. I would reccommend you on top so you can control it. Also, be safe! Since you are having sex I suggest you see the doc! Better safe than sorry!
Do not try doggy style! That gives you absolutely no control of how deep or hard he goes! Plus it is easy for him to penetrate deeply from this position. I would reccommend you on top so you can control it. Also, be safe! Since you are having sex I suggest you see the doc! Better safe than sorry!
nursinggirl (18 - 24 yrs) - March 30, 2010
it you do not want to talk to your doctor you can go to nurse advisory and ask them.that way everything is just between you two and the doc does not know.there are some women who have a cervices which moves when they have sex .so this might be something let your boyfriend now about so sex is okay for the both of you.
Anon (under 18 yrs) - August 30, 2010
I had this, it hurt when he went right in because it was hitting the back. As I relaxed it became less painful. The positions which I found it worse in was doggy and on top. Ask him not to go in so hard until your ready. My boyfriend often mistaked the sounds of pain as ones of pleasure, so make sure he knows if it's too hard or deep.
