Guys - do you like it when girls play hard to get?
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BB (18 - 24 yrs) - February 25, 2010
or does it make them seem stuckup?
Answers
Peter (25 - 29 yrs) - February 25, 2010
It makes them seem insecure. I ask very direct yes/no questions to see if girls like me. If they start playing games I don't waste my time with them.
I do like girls who 'are' hard to get, however. No games needed. They just wanna make sure the guy is smart, sexy and confident; the same qualities I like in a girl.
Dave (30 - 34 yrs) - February 25, 2010
Guys like a challenge, so a little hard to get is ok but be careful, if you play too hard to get he may move on to someone who seems more interested.
Joe said:
Agreed!
Agreed!
sean (18 - 24 yrs) - March 4, 2010
I believe men should earn you, however, expecting them to earn you and playing games are different. I think it is a horribly bad idea, I am engaged now but would never stick around for anyone while they played hard to get.
Robert (18 - 24 yrs) - June 15, 2010
Personally, don't play games like that. If you like somebody don't "play" anything. Be real. If a girl plays hard to get i just move on. Why waste my time?
Mike said:
Couldn't agree more, I have better things to do than ponder whether that cute girl really likes me and is playing hard to get, or she isn't interested.
Couldn't agree more, I have better things to do than ponder whether that cute girl really likes me and is playing hard to get, or she isn't interested.
Ladies, my advice is this: be straightforward about your feelings, you don't have to be blunt about it, but don't send mixed signals.
