Is it okay if my boyfriend doesn't like my friends?

Jez (under 18 yrs) - August 29, 2010

I have this boyfriend. We've been dating for a year, and I'm so in love with him, and he's in love with me. Just one problem. He doesn't like my friends. Well, he doesn't like 2 of my friends. The problem is they're my best friends, the girls I see every other day, the girls I talk about my feelings with, the girls I trust. But, he doesn't like them at all, matter of fact he HATES one of them. Okay, by now your probably thinking, is there a reason to why he hates them. Well, there are a couple, but their not that serious in my point a view. Okay, well, to put it in short, he doesn't like my friends for the simple fact that they make stupid decisions. They drink and smoke and have sex. Both of them, dated 2 of his best friends and both of them broke up with his best friends. Sometimes I think he doesn't like them because his best friends talk sh*t about them. But, he says it's not that. I do admit they do make stupid decisions, but who doesn't? He doesn't even want to be around them, sometimes he even tries to convince me to drop them as friends and make his friends into my best friends. His friends are nice but I don't see myself as "best friends" with them, after all every couple needs their own friends. Well, this is turning out to be very long. I just wanted to ask, is it healthy for my boyfriend to dislike 2 of my friends? P.S. Those are the only 2 friends he doesn't like, all the rest are fine to him.