Breakup problems!
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Abc (under 18 yrs) - January 23, 2010
I dated my bf for about a month and then he said he needed a break and i was like ok fine...then he said he wanted to date again and I took him back. Now he's starting to pay less attention to me and I think he's gonna dump me again. I don't want to get dumped again should I breakup first?
Answers
Natalie (18 - 24 yrs) - January 23, 2010
It doesn't sound like he knows what he wants, tell him to call you when he figures it out.
Dave (30 - 34 yrs) - January 24, 2010
It's up to you whether you want to break up with him first, but it does seem to be headed in that direction again.
jack (18 - 24 yrs) - January 25, 2010
i cant see why you would care who breaks it off with who! if your having good time with him that's all that should matter if you dont want to break up then don't! there is no point doing something you dont want to and ur going to feel the say way and miss him just as much (if u will) weather you break it off or he does
sean (18 - 24 yrs) - March 4, 2010
That is silly first of all, second of all, if you need a break after a month it isn't going to work. I think you are too young to date.
Andressa (18 - 24 yrs) - April 19, 2010
Getting back together with an ex usually never works. It is just statistics and I've learned this from experience. Stop taking him back. I know it's hard but it needs to be done. And don't break up with some one for the sole reason that you think he's going to break up with you. Talk to him about it. If he does leave you again make sure that it is actually over this time. If he was willing to risk loosing you once you clearly don't mean enough to him. Find someone who deserves you!
