What to do
asked in Breaking-Up Advice by:
Cody (18 - 24 yrs) - February 10, 2010
i'v been dating this girl for 5 mounths and she is nice and all but i just don't know i miss being able to "talk" to other girls. the real prob is i'm her 1st bf ever! her 1st kiss her 1st time her 1st every thing and i don't want to hurt her but she is just not the one for me what should i do and how? should i stay or should i go?
Answers
Dave (30 - 34 yrs) - February 10, 2010
You've already answered the question by saying "she is just not the one for me". What you really want to know is the least painful way to end it. I've been through this plenty of times and there's no magic formula. What I've learned is that even though it's painful, women would rather you sit them down, tell them how you feel, and make a clean break rather than avoiding them, growing distant, trying to get them to dislike you, and all the other stuff we do to make it easier. This is what they mean when they say "Man up". Good luck, dumping a nice person is one of the worst things you can go through.
Em (18 - 24 yrs) - February 11, 2010
i think you should break up with her but be nice!
