From seeing each other to friends
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Kirsty (18 - 24 yrs) - April 23, 2010
Hi i was seeing this guy for few weeks. we both had strong feelings for eachother and connected. but then one weekend he said he wants to just be friends as he isnt ready for a relationship.
I need help i dont know what to do about being friends i want to but i am having trouble putting my feelings for him aside. any help would be appreciated.
Thank you
I need help i dont know what to do about being friends i want to but i am having trouble putting my feelings for him aside. any help would be appreciated.
Thank you
Answers
Dave (30 - 34 yrs) - April 23, 2010
Going from dating to friends is a tough one but since you only dated a few weeks, even though the connection was strong, you could probably make it work. Try taking some time off from him and going on a few dates with other guys, that should help the romantic feelings fade.
My only question is do you want to pursue a friendship with him because you like him as a person and think he can be a good buddy or because you have feelings for the guy and think spending time with him will get you back together?
kirsty said:
well i want to have a friendship as i believe that he will make a good friend as we have alot in common.
well i want to have a friendship as i believe that he will make a good friend as we have alot in common.
jades (18 - 24 yrs) - April 23, 2010
why he not rdy for a relationshp? he rly want 2b frnds or tryng to break up nice?
kirsty said:
he told me that he wasnt ready to be with anyone and that he would like to be friends.
he told me that he wasnt ready to be with anyone and that he would like to be friends.
Jades said:
not rdy 2b w any1? snds lke bs
not rdy 2b w any1? snds lke bs
