By chance, I meet my ex bf, we hit it off the moment we meet. We spent alot of time together..I really felt a connection. Out of the blue he came over n broke it off told me we really needed to be friends n blah blah! Without hestiatian I agreed, he looked for me in the course of three weeks after that. Finally realizing what he was doing, I took the final step n went to his house. We made out n I asked him if that's all he wanted from me. He told me he was not ready to be in a serious relationship. I gave him a piece of my mind n told him what I held in. He told me he really liked me but he can't explain why he can't move forward with me. I left n I haven't spoken to him since then, well, it being said, it's a small world. My friend saw him kissing another girl, who woahhh is much younger then him. I was in disbelief n shocked, I guess he figured out how old that girl really was n stop seeing her. Am a very attracted women has"alot going for myself.. He's has nothing going on n yet I over saw all that, he does drink alot, which I guess wasn't going to work. Am so confused about what guys think they will get out of Dating an immatture younger girl? Does it have to have to do with self-esteem r me being independent women? What r ur thoughts y men can't b honest?