In the Dark

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A Woman is About to Switch off the Lights for her Dark Dining Date!

Tips
Move dangerous furniture out of the way or place padding and cushions against sharp edges.

You'll Need
Thick blankets, cardboard, or 6 mil black plastic sheeting from Home Depot or gardening store
Tape or nails
Black electrical tape for door seams
Damp towels or wet wipes

Date Description

Have you heard about this idea out of Europe where blind waiters serve food to patrons in complete darkness? No joke. It's called dark dining and customers cannot see a single thing while they eat - not their food, their date, nothing. The point is to remove a person's sense of sight to heighten their senses of taste and smell, giving them a better appreciation of the meal. But it's also an interesting, if somewhat unnerving, way to experience the world of a blind person. People are raving about what an unusual, fun, and enlightening experience it is and with just a little effort you can try it too!

The setup seems easy but getting a room pitch black is actually kinda tough in our modern world; you'll be surprised at how much light sneaks through normal curtains or blinds at night and how difficult it is to block completely. Try thick blankets, cardboard, or black plastic and pin or tape them over the windows. Make sure to do a test run the night before to identify problem areas, remembering that the human eye needs at least 15 minutes to adjust to complete darkness so you'll have to sit there for a bit before spotting all of the light leakage. Appliances, clocks, DVD players, etc will need to be covered too. It's very important to block every bit of light or the effect will be ruined and your date will not be impressed. Blindfolds are an option that saves work, but they tend to get uncomfortable quickly, let light through, and allow for quick little cheats. You really need to have complete darkness with no interruptions for the full effect so go with the darkened room if at all possible. It's worth it.

Before the lights go out things should already be prepared for the rest of the date in total darkness, which means plates, glasses, drinks, dinner, dessert, any after-dinner activities, and the like are in-place or accessible with minimal effort. Things can get a little messy during dinner so wear old clothes (you won't see each other anyway) and have plenty of napkins, wet wipes, or damp towels nearby. And don't worry about the mess, have a good time eating with your hands, licking your fingers, and feeding each other - it's all part of the fun!

The Meal
Dinner can be handled a few different ways: cook it together, have the host prepare a surprise meal for their date, or both of you bring a few dishes and everyone's surprised. The first one is pretty easy, you just cook dinner together and once everything is on the table and ready to go, it's lights out! The next two are a little more interesting because we tend to eat with our eyes nearly as much as with our mouths. Meaning if something is recognizable and looks good then we're more likely to enjoy it. The fun of a surprise is that you won't have any preconceived notions about the food, in fact you won't even know what you're eating until it hits your mouth! With the last option you will both prepare a few dishes for the other, put them under napkins on the table, and let your date discover what they are. It's a lot of fun to hear your date figure out shrimp scampi, a cold noodle dish, or cucumber salad. Meals can be eaten with silverware or you may decide to dispense with the pleasantries and just eat with your hands. I'd go with the hands, you're gonna end up using them anyway.

Prepare foods you like, but note that some types are a little easier to manage in the dark. For example, eating ravioli or ribs might be a fun mess, but trying to cut meat with a steak knife can be a little dangerous. Plus, ribs are so messy and embarrassing to eat normally, why not have a blast while no one can see? Here are some easy ideas for finger foods:

  • Olives or cheese to snack
  • Baguette or French bread
  • Stuffed jalapenos or mozzarella sticks
  • Fried chicken or buffalo wings
  • Ribs
  • Kebabs
  • Shrimp
  • Dumplings or egg rolls
  • Corn on the cob
  • Broccoli
  • Green beans
  • French fries or potato wedges
After the Meal
For some, dark dining is a little too disorienting and more than enough blindness for one night. If you're having fun though, why not spend the rest of the evening in the dark? Keep that altered sense of reality going and learn about each other without the verbal cues. Research has shown that we rely on facial gestures and other nonverbal cues more than the actual information coming out of a person's mouth, so you'll be surprised at how differently you communicate without all of that extra information. Here are some possible activities to try in the dark:


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Katrina posted on April 11, 2010

This was an amazing date! We each got a certain amount of money to spend however we wanted on food for the date. Not specifying who was responsible for each course led to a lot of variety (we ended up with coolers, fruit wine, pickles, cheese bread, chocolate cheesecake, strawberry shortcake, cheese tortellini, chicken rollups, and Greek salad...with a ton of leftovers!)

The fun began when we went to the store to do the shopping - we had to try to avoid each other while we picked stuff out. This led to furtive peeking around corners and using grocery baskets with cloth bags layered on top of them. I'm actually surprised that security wasn't called on us given our suspicious demeanor.

When we got home, we took turns prepping the food individually. There is no way I'd do this in the dark; it's too much of a safety hazard.

The first person to cook set their dishes on the table, with cloth bags covering them to keep them warm and hidden. Then the second person went and did the same.

Then we both took a good look at the table layout and proceeded to turn all the lights off, cover the clocks & darken the windows, etc.

This was such a fun date. I had no idea my husband had fed me cheese bread and he was thrilled when he discovered I had gotten pickles for him. I enjoyed eating cheesecake with my hands and he thought the fruit wine was some kind of red (obviously we won't be getting that wine again :P).

For some reason I thought it would be simple to eat in pitch blackness once I figured out what I was eating. It wasn't. There was no way to gauge where my food was without touching it or being right up close to it. Finger food is definitely the way to go with this one.

Figuring out what you're eating is interesting too. We relied a lot more on smell and taste than normal. This date brought home clearly to me how drastic it would be for someone to suddenly lose their sight.

This is so fun we'll be doing it again next month.

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