My girlfriend wants to hang around ALL THE TIME
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Ferdy (18 - 24 yrs) - February 3, 2010
I love my girlfriend but she always tags along when I'm doin things with my friends. If I say we're goin to a sports bar she asks to come along and if I say no she says please, please, please until I give in. She doesn't even like sports! When we get there she talks all during the game or gets bored. How do I tell her that I like bein around her but not ALL THE TIME?
Answers
MB (25 - 29 yrs) - February 3, 2010
she only wants to spend time with you, be nice
Dave (30 - 34 yrs) - February 3, 2010
Do it exactly the way you just said, tell her you love spending time together but you also need time alone with your friends. You'll need to arrive at a compromise where she doesn't feel left out of that part of your life and you don't feel suffocated.
W (25 - 29 yrs) - February 8, 2010
don't let her tag along, a buddy of mine does that and we hate it
Stephanie (under 18 yrs) - February 22, 2010
Try telling her you want a day out with the guys but be nice about it. She just wants to spend time with you. However she should understand you wanting an olny guys day..unless its all the time.. then i can she her wanting to go with you all the time.
Ferdy said:
I took your advice last week and things are much better now. Ended up that she was bein clingy because she was still nervous about where she fit in my life and where we were in the relationship.
I took your advice last week and things are much better now. Ended up that she was bein clingy because she was still nervous about where she fit in my life and where we were in the relationship.
