Valentines
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Discouraged (under 18 yrs) - February 14, 2010
Okay so my boyfriend and I were suppost to go skating and see a movie today. But then he messages me last night and says "I don't have enough time to do everything, I sorely wish I did. still have responsibilities to do on weekends." He said that he was able to go see a movie after 8:00 and I agreed. And then, today at 6 he calls me up and says that he isnt able to now. He apparently isnt able to make time for a gf on valentine day, the one day a year that he should. We have been going out since December and I have only seen him 2 times in that time, last date being january 2nd. Its not like I am being unreasonable. He keeps cancelling on me though.
What do I do?
Answers
Dave (30 - 34 yrs) - February 14, 2010
I hate to be the bearer of bad news but this guy isn't your boyfriend anymore, he just hasn't had the guts to tell you. Pretty lousy of him to cancel Valentine's plans at the last minute though, sorry.
Discouraged said:
even when he says "If i could spend all day with you I would...especially valentines"??
even when he says "If i could spend all day with you I would...especially valentines"??
Dave said:
I can understand last minute problems but canceling twice on Valentine's isn't a good sign, plus you've only seen him twice and the last time was a month and a half ago. How far away does he live?
I can understand last minute problems but canceling twice on Valentine's isn't a good sign, plus you've only seen him twice and the last time was a month and a half ago. How far away does he live?
