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Why hasn't he asked?

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Sunshine (under 18 yrs) - February 22, 2010
The story started when I was 10. We met during an overseas trip organised by my cousin's school(they're in the same school, now still) and well, perhaps it was love at first sight, I fell in love with him because he was sweet and nice and everything, and he gave me little things throughout our 1 week trip. I remembered attending parties of my cousin's and seeing him. Last october, we found each other on facebook and added each other. During January, he commented on my facebook status and we started talking again. We didnt keep in contact after the immersion trip :X

So anyways, we exchanged numbers and started texting. We texted about the immersion trip, and he told me that he still kept this confession letter I mailed to him when I was 10(hey, i was young and immature :)) and I asked why, he said because he felt the same way. I was shocked, but still, we continued texting and slowly, he said Iloveyou's to me every night before I sleep, randomly in his sms-es and he's even given me a pet name. But, why hasnt he asked to stead?

Worst still, I'm a bit worried that he's a flirt. He has many unknown random female friends whom he callls them using pet names with, from other countries. So I'm wondering, should I trust him? He may seem like a flirt, but he's really sweet, yet sometimes, once in a while, i feel insecure about it. :X

Please help!

Answers
meg (18 - 24 yrs) - February 22, 2010
I think he has feelings for you even tho he's a bit of a player. Do you live near enuf to go out?
Sunshine said:
Thanks! :D I really hope so and that he'll ask soon, or we just dont feel THAT official. Do you think I have anyways to um hint him to ask? Anyways, we dont live that near but its still considered near I guess.

Still, thanks for the comment! (:

meg said:
hes saying "i love you" so hes prob getting to it. If he doesn't soon then next time he says it say "then maybe u should ask me out sometime. :)" that should move things along
Sunshine said:
Hmmm, alright (: Thankyou so much. I've got a reason problem anyways, he still seems like much of a player and I know that he also talks to a lot of other girls on the internet. Should I still trust him? Since we're not so offical, I dont feel secure. But it also seems for me through his calls and everything that he really does love me :X
Dave (30 - 34 yrs) - February 23, 2010
I agree with Meg, it sounds like he likes you. He may be a flirt but that's ok since he's still single right?
Sunshine said:
Hmmm, yeah he is, though he um, broke up a few months ago ...
But anyways, thanks for the comment (:
Stephanie (under 18 yrs) - February 23, 2010
It sounds like your going to have to move things alone for him and maybe he'll grab on to that hint. Guys don't always get it but thats what makes them so perfect. And that would be one of their reasonings for needing us ;-).
Jen (18 - 24 yrs) - February 25, 2010
give him a chance but don't get to involved until u know u can trust him

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