Keep her interested
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C G (18 - 24 yrs) - October 7, 2010
i love my girl but i've been hurt so many times i find it hard to trust her or anyone for that matter.. she has a lot of guy friends and it bothers me cause i dont trut them she has been hidding the fact she has been talking to some of them on the phone. i think she is losing interest in me... we go out to diner and i try to keep thing fun and new and in bed as we... but i feel like im not keeping her interest. i have dated more then her and have had time to clam down and i think she wants to go and and be young and have fun but i dont no. i just want to keep her happy i looked for someone like her for a long time... help? please?
Answers
Dave (35 - 39 yrs) - October 7, 2010
If the big thing you do together is go out to dinner and have sex, albeit fun and new sex, then I can see why you have a problem. Do you do any other fun activities together? Girls love dancing, have you done that or thought about taking lessons together? Do you play sports or go hiking and explore new places on the weekend? Maybe go hiking with friends or start up/join a volleyball, baseball, or basketball team? How about finding some interesting areas that aren't too far away and driving out of town to see them? You could also look around for art gallery events or showings.
Dinner, movies, and sex will bore most girls over time. Get out there and be interesting with her.
C G said:
i see your point she does bore with that and i have made things more interesting it has helped a lot thank you.
i see your point she does bore with that and i have made things more interesting it has helped a lot thank you.
Byron (18 - 24 yrs) - October 20, 2010
What dave said fool u got to show her that u love is strong and that shes ur number one MOFO. no but really exciting activity keep her guessing im not sure what kind of like you lead or even how old u are but maybe a picnic would be nice if ur in the right part of the world, lying in the grassing talking drinking refreshing cocktails (i like cranberry juice with vodka and mint) and eating delicious sandwiches and thing is always good it helps crate bonds and build love from one another
if its not warm sunny and nice and green maybe make her dinner and then sit in front of a fire u make talking and cooking marshmallows or roasting potatoes
is also good times
best of luck
C G said:
thank you thats helps! the fire is a good idea not to warm up hear
thank you thats helps! the fire is a good idea not to warm up hear
