Caught between 2 girls
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Also, don't forget that people tend to remember more good things about a relationship the longer it's been over. Make sure you really want to be back in it again before taking the leap.
P.S. You need Jesus, the perfect example of how to love. He died because my sins were so great and offensive to God that I could never pay the debt and be accepted. While I was still offending him he died to make me right. Faithful to the point of death on my behalf. Man. We have trouble being faithful when we are merely uncomfortable, or when there are more attractive options. There is none like my Lord.
I couldn't agree with you more, Sean. My ex left our relationship for that exact reason, he didn't want to work. He left me for a 16 yr old (mind you this guy is 22, I'm 19). He knew she would go along with whatever he said and he could have more freedom because her mommy wouldn't let her out of the house!
But there are circumstances where it just isn't meant to be. Think about your ex and seriously decide whether you want to be with her or not. If you do don't give up when it gets tough! If you don't, go ahead and get with this new girl. But always know, relationships ARE work. They are not easy so just be determined and dedicated. If you can't then you don't need ANY relationship.
