Girl never had sex?
asked in Other Advice by:
Nursinggirl (18 - 24 yrs) - March 30, 2010
me and my bf have been together about three years.he is always talking about sex and everything.but i am a girl who wants to wait.how do i tell him i want to wait for now.with out hurting him or us.then how do i tell him when i am.what do i do about sex.never have had it and do not know much exept about the organs males and females have.
Update (March 30)
with this is it normal to be scared you might end up preg when you first do something.
Answers
Dave (30 - 34 yrs) - March 30, 2010
I have to say that if you've been dating for three years and haven't had sex yet then I can understand why he's always talking about it. :) Your level of physical intimacy is a personal choice, so do what feels comfortable, but if you don't want to have intercourse you can still do things to keep him satisfied sexually. As far as learning about sex, you're online right now, why not do a little searching? I'm sure there are plenty of informative and instructional sites that will be as graphic or sensitive as you like.
nursinggirl said:
the other reason i see we have not had sex is because we are 22 hours apart.i think i will look into some stuff to help.thanks.
the other reason i see we have not had sex is because we are 22 hours apart.i think i will look into some stuff to help.thanks.
Emmie (18 - 24 yrs) - March 30, 2010
Look around online, tons of places to learn about sex. Just ask the guys, that's the only reason they usethe internet far as I can tell. lol! I was nervous at first about getting preggers too but if u use a condom or birth control pills u should be ok.
nursinggirl said:
with the birth control thing.my doctor does not want me on it till i am active.so what do i do there?
with the birth control thing.my doctor does not want me on it till i am active.so what do i do there?
Emms said:
u tell him ur going to have sex and he'll write u a script
u tell him ur going to have sex and he'll write u a script
nursinggirl said:
i will have to do that.
i will have to do that.
nursinggirl said:
how did you deal with the pain?did you tell the guy or just bear it?
how did you deal with the pain?did you tell the guy or just bear it?
Emmie said:
The first time hurts mostly because boys dont know what their doing yet. If ur guy takes his time so that ur ready it can be nice. btw my first had no clue and it was a little painful but when they dont have a clue its also over before u know it! lol! Have him pick up some lube.
The first time hurts mostly because boys dont know what their doing yet. If ur guy takes his time so that ur ready it can be nice. btw my first had no clue and it was a little painful but when they dont have a clue its also over before u know it! lol! Have him pick up some lube.
nursinggirl said:
thanks emmie,i think he does now what he is doing because he was mariied when we first meet.
thanks emmie,i think he does now what he is doing because he was mariied when we first meet.
beachgrl (18 - 24 yrs) - April 1, 2010
We're all nervous the first time, to do it right you should be in a comfortable place physically and mentally and he should take it slow.
You don't need to get on the pill if he's 22 hours away, have him wear condoms when you see each other.
nursinggirl said:
thanks.i am thinking of going and staying with him this summer.so i might just want to be on it for then.
thanks.i am thinking of going and staying with him this summer.so i might just want to be on it for then.
caleb crawford (under 18 yrs) - October 20, 2011
Well you could just say that you want to think about it or you want to wait a bit before sex because a boy will go for sex right then right when you go out but yes you girs are a bit diffrent...
