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Long Distance kills :(

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Sunshinee (under 18 yrs) - March 28, 2010
Hey its me again!(: My relationship has been working out fine so far, me and my boyfriend have gotten together for more than a month now and we've went on our first date alr. It was great fun and all and he kissed me (:

Recently, he was caught texting in class and his phone got confiscated by the teacher for 3 months :( I have no idea how to talk to him, since calling his house phone might get him to get scolded. I dont know if he would like it if i wrote on his wall, since most of his friends might see :/ And he is also seldom online on msn, and doesnt frequently reply me on msn either :( I tried tagging him in a status and sending messages using facebook but he didnt reply, unlike last time :(

I'm really scared that our relationship might sour, and I miss him so so so so much. I can only talk to the soft toy bear he gave me, like as though I'm talking to him. I want to go meet him on our 2nd monthsary secretly and give him a surprise, do you think he'll like it? :/ And how can I prevent our relationship from going downhill? :( I miss him so much :(

Answers
Dave (30 - 34 yrs) - March 28, 2010
Congrats on the great first date and too bad about the hassles since. I don't know why he'd be scolded for talking to someone on the phone but if you're worried just send him an email and ask if his parents would have a problem with you calling the house once in a while.

I would probably recommend that you not show up and surprise him for a 1-month anniversary after having only gone on one date. It sounds romantic but I think you might freak him out.

nursinggirl (18 - 24 yrs) - March 30, 2010
sunshine,
i now you miss him,but i think your relationship will be fine.he might be doing the same thing you are doing to the bear.with calling.i would wait .with the trip you might want to ask if it is ok if you could maybe just stop by sometime you are in town before going all that way and then he can not see you or talk to you anymore.i know msn is slow and everything,but if he wants to keep in touch with you i think that is the way.with facebook.me and my bf ran into the problem with the friends.you can send a message to him on there just dont put anything cutesy on the wall and things.if need more help or want to talk my msn is maribethkh@hotmail.com,
MB

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