Long distance dating
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Nursinggirl (18 - 24 yrs) - March 30, 2010
me and my boyfriend have been on and off again for 4 years.we live 22 hours apart and we both are going to college too.i am afraid i am losing him because we never have the money to go see each other.i have sent him things and we text almost every day,but i am so so lonly here.i feel i am the only one doing anything.he sent me flowers over 2 years ago and that is it.should he be sending more to me?help i need some guildence.
Answers
Dave (30 - 34 yrs) - March 30, 2010
Trouble with long distance relationships seems to be a common theme. If you don't see each other you should make an effort to stay close by talking on the phone, emails, letters, gifts, and things like that, but it's always going to strain the relationship. Him not sending flowers might not be a big deal, some guys don't send gifts much and lots of younger ones don't do it at all. He should be sending you things for your birthday, Christmas, and Valentine's though.
nursinggirl said:
the flowers was all i have gotten from him the whole time we have been together.that was june 11 08
the flowers was all i have gotten from him the whole time we have been together.that was june 11 08
Stephanie (under 18 yrs) - April 2, 2010
yes hun he should be sending you more. after four years there should be a hell of a lot more than that. maybe drop some hints to him and stuff like that.
nursinggirl said:
i have been giving him hints all the time and nothing.i know we are both in school but there should be something.i think i am going to write to him and let him now how i feel about only getting flowers and something from him once.but if you have more advice i am here with an open mind.
i have been giving him hints all the time and nothing.i know we are both in school but there should be something.i think i am going to write to him and let him now how i feel about only getting flowers and something from him once.but if you have more advice i am here with an open mind.
Stephanie said:
Thats a good start. umm... do you love each other? maybe you should remind him that you love him and you want this to work and you have faith that it will. If you do that is lol.
Thats a good start. umm... do you love each other? maybe you should remind him that you love him and you want this to work and you have faith that it will. If you do that is lol.
