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Just had my one year and the night went bad,

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Ali (18 - 24 yrs) - August 17, 2010
my bf and i just this last july had are one year.
he lives in a big family and the both of usw made plans to go to the beach and then have dinner at a nice restuartant. were both adults and new to being in a relationship for personal reasons.he's 21 and im 22 years old. he's also not very mature.

here's what happened?
we got to the beach and i noticed in the car that he seemed cold to me and i thought maybe i did something to make him mad,or that he was just as nervous as me casue we've never been in real relationship like this. well we went to dinner and he wouldn't say two words the whole time. usually we talk none stop when were together.the whole night felt wrong and i was worried that it was me and that he didn't have the same feelings for me. i asked him if something was worng and he told me it was nothing. but i knew something was borthering him. later on i found out he had a fight with his partents.

ps all i wanted for a gift was one red rose and a small box of candy, he never gave it to me, i myself had made him a nice picture of the two of us and a got him a beautiful handmade card.

now i don't even know if a second year would be a good ideal.HELP PLEASE WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Answers
Dave (35 - 39 yrs) - August 17, 2010
Sounds like a lousy night but I wouldn't be thinking about throwing it away because he was a little off (ok a lot off). The gift thing is a little disturbing though. He should have gotten you something for your anniversary, especially since the first one is a big deal. Let him know it hurt your feelings and that you expect him to get something for your birthday, Christmas, Valentine's, and anniversaries. Doesn't have to be expensive but it should show some thought. If he understands it's important to you he should make an effort next time. If not, then start wondering about your future together.
aliison said:
thanks im so going to do just that. i just hope that he'll listen casue finding good guys is really hard to do.thxs for ur help dave

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