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Coinstar Date

submitted by Ryan

My girlfriend and I are in College, and were both poor for a couple of weeks. We really wanted to go out on a date, so I came up with a really cheap and fun date that ended up being one of our better times together.

What you do is you both scour your apartments, cars, etc. for any change that has accumulated over the months. Then you go together to a grocery with a coinstar and cash it all in.

The rules are that you have to spend all of the money you make in one night, and you can't spend any more than that.

Although it sounds a little silly, it's actually really fun. Coinstar money is basically money you wouldn't have ever had otherwise, so it's fun to splurge and not feel guilty about it.

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surprise picnic

submitted by Tiffany

My boyfriend drives a cab in the city so i called his company and requested his cab to pick me up. I was dressed as a muslim lady, covered only revealing my eyes.. lol and i had a basket filled with a blanket and goodies. he picked me up and i told him i wanted to go to a local city park i knew of when we arrived i gor up and said "arent you going to join me" and i took off my scarf and he could not believe it was me the whole time! what a nice surprise date!
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Glow in the dark frisbee

submitted by Dan

Get a glow in the dark frisbee or paint a regular one with glow in the dark paint and go out to a football field or the beach and play frisbee at night. Wear glow in the dark necklaces to see where the other person is and it also helps to wear a glowing band around your catching wrist to see where your hand is. You could also tape a glow in the dark necklace to the inside of a frisbee but I'm not sure how well that would work. Play frisbee for a while and then watch the stars.
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Random Trip

submitted by Keishawn

We got bored one weekend and decided to put all the nearby towns in a hat and draw a random one to drive to. It was good, we listened to good tunes on the way out and explored the town for a few hours. Had some great ribs at a bbq place.

Stop by the visitor center first to find out whats fun to do or check it out online the night before you go.

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A Night At The Beach

submitted by Kahlen

romantic! you and your boyfriend go to a beach during the summmertime at night time, around 9:00 when no one else is there, and run around the beach, go in the ocean/lake(but oceans more romantic for the waves, if you can) and bring a blanket, you might get cold and want to snuggle!
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Long Distance Movie

submitted by Therese

My boyfriend and I go to different schools so we can't be together very much. We figured out a way to watch movies together, we both rent the same one and call the other up and hit play at the exact same time. Then we sit and watch a movie together even though we're not. The best are funny ones we have seen before so we can talk and make fun of the characters without ruining it.
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Local College Events

submitted by Matt

Many college have free events that are open to the public! To find these events simply go to a nearby college's website and look in their "event calender" and you will see common free events like free carnavales(free food free rides free entertainment paid for by students tuition and your taxes) also you may see events like outdoor movies (just bring ur blanket!) and indoor movies, as well as bbq's. intersting lectures,open mic/karoke night, concerts and more!
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"COSMIC" Bowling

submitted by Joshua

This is a fun date idea. Usually better reserved for a date with someone you already know and want to have some fun with. Requires a local bowling alley that does cosmic bowling nights.

PUT THE COSMIC BACK INTO COSMIC BOWLING!

Go to a hardware store and buy some painters jumpsuits and some flourescent spray paint. You and your date use stencils made from paper bags to spray paint designs onto your white jumpsuits. When we did this we went with a space theme and had stars, moons, swirls, and rocketships all over our jumpsuits. When you are done decorating, allow the suits to dry for at least 30 minutes. Have a couple of drinks or some appetizers. When the suits are dry throw them on and head to the local bowling alley's cosmic bowling night.

For an added bonus paint your face with white face paint or glow in the dark paint.

When we did this, we had so much fun! The bowling alley manager even gave us passes for free bowling! We even went out to a club to dance in our outfits after we were done bowling. A little eccentric, but once you let go of your inhibitions and just resolve yourself to a night of silliness... you will never have a more fun time.   

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Bingo!

submitted by Megan

I heard from a friend that bingo nights happen all the time at local bars and restaurants so I found one online (yelp I think) and dragged my husband and another couple we know because I was worried about it being really lame. It was so fun! We go play every few months now and if you go try to find a fun spot because the right crowd makes it so much better.
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Personal drive in

submitted by Nate

I am a man who tries to be as creative and original with my dates. One time on a first date I spent the day clearing out the garage and set up the tv and DVD player in the garage. We made popcorn and drinks and pulled the car in the garage, turned it off and just watched a movie on the tv while sitting in the car. It was a lot of fun and a unique way to watch a movie!!
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Art walk

submitted by gavin

Many cities (in my case, Seattle) have one day a month where art studios or museums open up for free.
The art studios & galleries opening is called the "art walk". You can see glass blowers, painters, sculptures etc etc. all for free. You and the significant other can have a great time enjoying the art (or making fun if it, if that's your cup of tea). Also, quite often the private studios will open a few bottles of wine and pass it out for free, should you go visit them.
In addition to the studios and galleries museums and aquariums open up on different days of the month for free; you just have to figure out the days of the month. Again, can be very enjoyable, even if you're not there because you really truly enjoy the art or the museum (i can't say i'm a big fan of the history museums ), you can always go and have fun, make fun of things, be mischievous etc.

It really is one of the best times you can have on a date.
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letter writting

submitted by Krista

my boyfriend and I write letters to Santa every year. It is nice!! Plus, Santa writes back, so it's neat. Plus, you'll have something to lok forward to together.
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Personal Dinner Cruiz (almost free)

submitted by Zander

if you're broke then borrow stuff, i was 17 when I did this and it costed me like 4 bucks maybe

Borrow a canoe (large if possible) and an oar and out fit it with 2 patio chairs or stadium seats facing eachother separated and a piece of wood (attatched to canoe and across the middle serving as a table, making a little dinner table for 2. throw blankets in the canoe and stuff like that. Find a small/private lake or pond and launch the canoe all set up for your dinner and tie it up where you and your date can EASILY access it. Go home and pack a bag with your dinner whatever it is, plates, wine/champaign/sparkling cidar, candles, etc. Then throw it in the back and pick her up. I like suprising my girlfriend so I just tell her we're going out and its a surpise. When I pick her up I tell her to put on a blind fold, drive to the canoe, lead her into it, paddle out, light candles, set up dinner and then let her take off blindfold. after you eat u can switch to one side and cuddle or whatever. Moonlight is a plus becuase it can get dark and hard to eat. She really liked it and I maybe have spend 5 bucks with gas. have fun.

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Fictional Story

submitted by Alyssa

How about you and your date find a nice bench as the sun is going down (or a campfire if you like) and tell each other stories!
They can be mysterious, romantic, scary, humorous, thought-provoking, etc. And the best part is that they can be completely fictional!
This way you can be creative or silly with the person you're with. This will show them that you are open to them about your dreams and thoughts. Also, you can see what types of things interest them, make them laugh, scare them, entice them, or make them scratch their head.
It doesn't have to be lengthy or elaborate, but try to come up with ideas that you never thought of before, or even try to conjure up a story about something that they really enjoy.
Have fun!
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Love Note Jars

submitted by Jacob

This is a really fun and simple idea that will get you and your significant other together and being creative.
Here's how it's done:
1. Buy some cardboard boxes (the "jars") that are shaped similar to a soda can. You can find these at most stores (Walmart, Target, etc.)
2. Buy some stickers, pens, markers, glitter, etc.
3. Decorate your "jars" with the stickers and markers. Make it something sweet!
4. On the underside of the lid to your jar (on the inside of it), write "I love you because..."
5. After you're done decorating your jars, cut out squares of colorful paper (2 inches by 2 inches is the perfect size).
6. On those pieces of paper, write some reasons why you love them. They can be anything!! Just make sure not to write "I love you because" on the cards! You already wrote that on the lid, remember?? For example, on a card, write "You're the only person to hold the key to my heart."
7. Fill the jar with all of the pieces of paper and exchange them with your lover.

Come up with some creative ways for your lover to receive the love notes! For example, every time they make your heart skip a beat, you can reward them by saying "Go get yourself a love note, sweetie." This makes a great "reward" system, and it is a good motivation for treating each other extra special!

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Scary Movie Date

submitted by Jaclyn

Rent horror movies, turn the lights off, light up candles, candy & popcorn!
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trivia and beer

submitted by justin

go to a bar that has those trivia machines where you can play against your date or team up against other people in the bar. even people all over the country but it's more fun against peopel in the same bar. order a pitcher and some appetizers and have a fun night. it's a good double date too, you get to play against your friends.
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The is an unique and fun overnight date to remember!

submitted by Georgia

Have you done it all and need something new? Take your date to a local haunted house B&B! You'll be entertained in the wonder and the stories your host will have to offer. Seek security in the arms of your loved one all night! You'll find them all over ~ Google or use your search engine for your areas haunted locations. There's even suggestions if you want to fly away to one on the Travel Channel website. Enjoy an experience you'll never forget :O)
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Vegas baby!

submitted by Fred

Surprise your date with two tickets to Vegas. Get drunk and go to the Elvis chapel and get married. Call all your friends and family and tell them the news. Two hours later go get a divorce.
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Fast food scavenger hunt

submitted by monica

Put all the fast food items you like in a hat like McD's fries, BK tenders, JBox stuffed peppers. Pull them out one at a time and drive to the nearest location to eat only that item, keep going until you're stuffed!
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Cemetery

submitted by dr fisch

My favourite is going to the cemetery at night, preferable just before midnignt - if she/he does not agrees, you are not going to get along so forget about it.
Dont foget to take some scary stuff to scare her/him away big time! Like a fake arm or something.
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Getting doughnuts

submitted by lyndon

Feign planning an activity that takes place place in the afternoon, but then!!! Wake up your date at 5 A.M. instead and get coffee and doughnuts! If your date isn't satisfied, he/she isn't the one for you!
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